Engagement rings and bands are something that never go out of style. Yet the styles themselves? They’re always evolving.
Whether you're newly engaged, deep into wedding planning, or helping a client pick the perfect piece, this episode is for anyone who believes that your rings should be just as unique as your relationship. Because yes, it’s about the sparkle—but it’s also about the sentiment behind it.
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I’m so excited to have you here today as we break down the latest engagement ring and wedding band trends—from what’s new and next in the world of fine jewelry to thoughtful ways you can customize your rings so they truly tell your love story. And of course, we’ll touch on a few key things to keep in mind once that ring is officially yours.
So whether you’re team classic solitaire or totally obsessed with colored stones, grab your coffee—or champagne—and let’s get into it.
ENGAGEMENT RING TRENDS I’M LOVING RIGHT NOW
Alright, let’s talk engagement ring trends. While there will always be a place for the timeless classics—hello, round solitaires and platinum bands—we’re seeing so many couples choose engagement rings that feel a little more unexpected, and a lot more them. Here are a few of the biggest styles making waves right now:
Toi et Moi Setting
First up, the Toi et Moi setting. This romantic “you and me” style features two stones instead of one, symbolizing two souls coming together. It’s sentimental, stylish, and often combines different stone shapes or even different colors for a modern twist on tradition. It’s been embraced by celebrities like Ariana Grande, and I love that it brings a fresh energy to a classic symbol of love.
Elongated Fancy Cuts
Another trend I’m seeing everywhere? Elongated fancy cuts. While round diamonds still reign supreme, we’re seeing a huge rise in elongated cuts like ovals, emeralds, and pears. They’re flattering on the finger, give the illusion of a larger stone, and just feel a little more fashion-forward. Plus, they’re ideal for lower-profile settings that work better with active lifestyles.
Colored Gemstones
And if you’re someone who wants a little color in your life, you’re not alone. Colored gemstones are having a big moment. Sapphires, emeralds, morganite—even black diamonds—are all making their way into engagement ring designs. They’re a great option for couples who want to break from tradition or add symbolic meaning to their ring. Sapphires symbolize loyalty, emeralds represent renewal, and morganite is often linked to unconditional love.
East-West Setting.
For a more modern twist, consider the East-West setting. Instead of the traditional vertical placement, stones are being flipped horizontally for a sleek, modern look. East-west settings work especially well with emerald, oval, and marquise shapes and are perfect for someone who wants a non-traditional design that still feels elegant. They also allow for a lower setting, which means it’s easier to wear every day.
Metals and Two-Tone Bands
I’m also seeing more mixed metals and two-tone bands. Gone are the days of sticking to just one metal. Mixing platinum with yellow or rose gold adds dimension—and gives you more flexibility when it comes to matching your wedding band later on. It also opens the door to wearing different jewelry pieces together without clashing.
Heirloom-Inspired Details
And finally, heirloom-inspired details are definitely back. Vintage-inspired settings with milgrain, engraving, and art deco flair are definitely having a comeback. Think antique-style rings with a modern polish. We love this for couples who want something timeless, but still unique. These rings tell a story all on their own, even before you add your own chapter.
Of course, trends are fun to watch, but your ring should ultimately reflect your personal style and values. That’s why in the next section, we’re diving into ways to customize your ring—so it tells your story, no matter what’s trending.
WEDDING BAND TRENDS THAT PAIR PERFECTLY
Now let’s talk about what's trending for wedding band styles for 2025. Because let’s be honest—the engagement ring often steals the show, but your wedding band is the one you’ll stack next to it every single day. And these days, couples are getting creative and intentional with their band choices.
Contoured and Shaped Bands
First up is countoured and shaped bands. These are bands designed to hug the curve of your engagement ring’s center stone so the two sit perfectly flush. Ideal for fancy-cut or asymmetrical stones, contoured bands create a cohesive, polished look without sacrificing comfort.
Stackable Bands
The next trend I'm seeing for wedding band styles for 2025 is stackable bands. Instead of one and done, many couples are building their stack over time. Maybe you wear your engagement ring and wedding band, and then add an anniversary band later. Or maybe you layer on a travel-friendly option. This approach adds flexibility and symbolism to your ring stack.
Diamond Eternity Bands
Another trend I'm seeing is diamond eternity bands. These are always in style, but we’re seeing more people gravitate toward full eternity bands for maximum sparkle. One thing to note: these can be hard to resize, so make sure your size is accurate before committing!
Textured Bands
Textured bands are also trending. Think hammered metal, brushed finishes, or hand-engraved details. These add dimension and interest, and are great if you want something that feels one-of-a-kind.
Hidden Details
Another trend I love is hidden details. We’re seeing more and more bands with thoughtful, hidden elements. Things like tiny sapphires set inside the band, initials carved underneath, or a secret design only the couple knows about.
Matching (but not identical) Bands
Couples are also choosing matching, but not identical bands. Some couples are choosing bands that complement rather than match—maybe one is rose gold and the other is platinum, or one features a shared motif in different styles. It’s a great way to reflect your individuality while staying connected.
Gender-Inclusive Styles
Finally, the last trend for wedding band styles for 2025 is gender-inclusive styles. Forget the idea that bands have to be hyper-feminine or super-masculine. Bold matte finishes, black diamonds, minimalist silhouettes—I love that couples are choosing bands based on personal taste, not gender norms.
Now that you have a clearer picture of what’s out there, let’s talk about how to infuse your rings with personal meaning.
UNIQUE WAYS TO CUSTOMIZE YOUR ENGAGEMENT RING
Now that we’ve covered what’s trending, let’s talk about how you can take things a step further and make your engagement ring truly your own. Whether you're designing from scratch or adding personal touches to an existing setting, these ideas can help your ring feel even more meaningful.
Personal Engravings
First, you could add personal engravings. This might sound simple, but a hidden engraving on the inside of your band is one of the most romantic, timeless ways to customize your ring. It could be your wedding date, your initials, or even a short phrase or quote that holds special meaning for the two of you.
Setting
Next, think about your setting. Even if you're going with a classic stone, the way it's set can dramatically change the look. Want something a little more modern? A bezel setting gives a sleek, minimalist feel. Prefer something delicate and vintage? A cathedral setting or one with intricate filigree details can totally transform the vibe.
Side Stones
You could also play with the side stones. This is where you can add in extra sparkle—or sentiment. Some couples choose birthstones, meaningful gems, or even tiny colored diamonds on either side of their center stone for a more personalized touch.
Heirloom Stones
Speaking of sentimental touches, don't forget about heirloom stones. Using a family diamond or gemstone is a beautiful way to carry legacy and history into your marriage. And if the original setting isn’t quite your style, you can always redesign it into something that feels fresh while still honoring where it came from.
Prongs
Another way couples are getting creative with their wedding band styles for 2025 is by going custom with prongs. It’s a small detail, but even the shape of the prongs holding your stone—claw, double, or even floral-inspired—can give your ring a unique character that reflects your style.
Symmetry
Finally, think beyond symmetry. More and more couples are opting for asymmetrical designs, especially when combining different stone shapes or cluster-style settings. This can make your ring feel like a true work of art and something no one else has.
At the end of the day, your engagement ring isn’t just a piece of jewelry—it’s a symbol of your story. So whether you’re going full custom or adding just one small personal detail, choose what feels like you.
I highly recommend working with a jeweler who offers custom design consultations. Some even provide wax models or 3D renderings so you can preview and tweak your ring before it’s made.
And now that you’ve got the ring of your dreams—or are on your way to designing it—there’s one more thing you need to do. Let’s talk about protecting it.
PROTECTING YOUR RING
I want you to humor me for a minute.
Imagine this: you’re on a dreamy post-engagement vacation, soaking up the sun in beautiful Turks & Caicos. You take off your ring—just for a second—to apply more sunscreen. You set the ring on your towel, thinking you’ll put it back on in just a second. But before you realize it, you get up, head into the water for a quick dip and when you come back… the ring you took off earlier is gone.
Or this: you’re getting ready for your engagement photos and your ring catches on your dress zipper. You think nothing of it until you realize—your diamond chipped. Just like that.
These might sound like worst-case scenarios, but they happen way more often than you’d think. And while we don’t want to plan for disaster, we do want to protect what matters—especially something as meaningful (and valuable) as your engagement ring.
Honestly, insuring your ring should be one of the first things you do after getting engaged. You’ve just made this huge, beautiful commitment. Don’t let one slip-up or accident take away from that.
That’s why I always recommend using a company like BriteCo to insure your ring as soon as possible. They specialize in jewelry insurance—so they make the process fast, easy, and tailored specifically for engagement and wedding rings. You can get a quote in minutes, and their coverage includes loss, theft, damage, and even mysterious disappearance.
So if you’re newly engaged and haven’t gotten your ring insured yet—pause this episode and go do it right now. I’ll drop the link in the show notes so you can check out BriteCo and get the peace of mind you definitely deserve.
Because at the end of the day, your engagement ring isn’t just a piece of jewelry—it’s a symbol of your story. It’s the first tangible piece of your future together, and it's likely one of the most meaningful things you’ll wear every day. So protecting it just makes sense. No one expects to lose their ring on a beach vacation or chip a stone while moving boxes, but it happens more often than you'd think. And the heartbreak of something happening to your ring isn't something I want anyone to go through.
CONCLUSION
Alright, friends, that’s a wrap on our deep dive into engagement ring and wedding band trends and customization ideas! Whether you choose a timeless solitaire, a bold two-stone design, or a custom band that holds special meaning, what matters most is that it feels like you.
And while trends will come and go, making intentional choices—about the design, the fit, the details, and yes, the protection—will always be in style. I hope this episode gave you some inspiration and ideas to make your ring feel uniquely yours, and helped you feel more confident as you navigate this exciting season.
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